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Discussion of Alcoholism
Re: alcohol and relationships
Posted By: florie In Response To: Re: alcohol and relationships (kristi cornwell)
Date: Sunday, 31 August 2003, at 12:39 p.m.
I am having a bad time with alcohol in this relationship. My boyfriend is a bar person. He enjoys his beer and friends male or female.He never starts fights nor got a dui.He drinks till he knows when he's had enough. The problem is when we go out together and get tippsy he starts stuff.Gets me mad cause he insults me or blames me ends up turning on me. We harldly ever leave a bar laughing together or come home and finish the night off with sex.He won't go out to a bar with me anymore cause of the last incident.(I feel it's an excuse).The last time we were out I drank and had shared shots with a friend. The boyfriend says lets go now. I said I wanted to finish my drink.Once outside I remember he took my jacket off his motorcycle and hit me in the chest with it and said something angry.I in return got defensive and wouldnt get on the bike,so he took off like a mad man. I ran inside the bar threw over a table crying and went back outside. From there a guy talked to me outside that the boyfriend knew . I was really hurt and embarrassed that he did that to me in front of people who knew us.What I did was no exception either throwing over a table. On top of that this waitress from inside that we both know was leaving and as she passed me she gave me a look. Meanwhile this girl has eaten at my house and knew me. She wasn't speaking to me since me and the boyfriend got back together and I could never understand why. I get upset when people do this to me. So anyway I asked her what her problem was.She wouldn't answer me.(I wasnt in a good mood and this happened at a bad time. Well I smacked her in the back of her head.Someone from behind me threw me down.I get up shes still standing in front of me. I told her off from there and she just had this mad look on her face.Now the guy that was talking to me tells me I jumped this girl. and thats how the whole mess got back to my boyfriend. And because of her, the table in his friends bar and what people told him that(I'm physco).So now every sunday he goes to sport bars while I'm at my moms. I get home at 5:00 left a message on his cell phone that he didnt answer that I was home and still almost an hour later haven't herd from him. He doesn't understand how he's hurting me by not taking me out with him. I feel that everyone always sees him out without me and it makes me feel terrible like I'm being played a fool. He doesn't care about family.He won't come to my moms with me for diner.Nor make plans with me later on. We just do the movies and who sees us there.. His friends and beer and motorcycle are before me. The sports bars are good for couples or people who want to meet people.When he comes home later he will be tired,drunk,and criticize me and get out of hand. I wish all these bars would burn down.
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